Last week EK was so excited for her first soccer game. We did indoor last year but it was all drills. The first game was rained out so she was super excited for Saturday.
We arrive ready to go and the coach approaches us and the little hand I'm hold clenches mine tight and she screams. Loud EK scream. I'm standing there wondering what just happened and honestly not really sure what to do. This was a first. So that begins our first soccer game that was mostly spent crying and on the sidelines. Something truly had her feeling out of her comfort zone and I reassured her I was there, this was something fun she could do with friends but that she didn't have to play soccer. I focused really hard to not pressure her or get frustrated.
Let me be honest it was a tough hour for this momma. It was a true circus act, littles having to potty every second because they thought the Johnny on the spot was fun, chill Trudy crawling away in the grass and my screamer. A few moments I thought what the hell are we doing.....but then jump forward to this week.
My girl overcame a big fear of her coach and loved every minute of the hour of soccer. So much that this week we had to discuss that it's ok when the other team scores a goal and that we have to sub in and out so everyone gets a turn. It was a completely different #6 soccer player this week.
So why did we sign up for soccer...we have already learned more than the game of soccer. These are experiences and lessons that teach EK so much and also teach us so much about parenting. It wasn't an easy or fun start for us or EK but we learned alot. So proud of you EK!