Tonight I had to follow the momma instinct. The last 5 (I have lost track) weeks or so dance night has not gone well. Littles are so excited to dance and love watching EK..... when it's their turn and we get to the door, they loose it. It has been challenging not because I think they have to dance but because I want to make the right choice. I don't want my kids to think we just give up and I always like to finish what we start. But as I journey through parenting I remember you can have a plan but have to be open to other plans. They are too little to use words to tell me why they don't want to go but their crying message is clear, we will hang up the tutus this year. This is what is right for my little girls and me the momma. Extra activities are for fun and when no one is having fun we have to make a change.
So here we are dance may be something they try next year or maybe it's just not something they like. We gave it a good effort and they loved it in the start. But something changed and this momma is ready to not have a headache every Thursday night.
Littles - message from momma. I am always here to listen to you and help. Since you are little now I work to make the best choice for you and as you get older I will guide you. I am on your side! Love you so much!!
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